I so wish that words could take away the pain, disbelief and void that has become a part of your life. I noticed that Justin died on July 16th, 2008. The date still stings my heart and shallows my soul:( Our son Andrew, died on July 16th, 2005. What a journey that has been...one that I would never wish on anyone. There are days that will resemble normalcy but that takes awhile; everyone grieves in their own way and specific time. I'm not sure why Justin left this life at such a young age, nor do I know the circumstances surrounding his death. I do however, know that in almost 4 years, I have accepted the fact that Andrew's head injury probably took him from us when he was ejected from his car...we had him for four more days, controlled by life support and no responses and signs of life at all. He looked good though, still tan and handsome...his head was bandaged but he simply appeared to be sleeping. It was during this time that I began to realize that I would not have him to touch much longer. Only a parent can truly understand what this does to our lives.
I wish you only the best and will keep you in my prayers as July 16th approaches. Please visit Andrew's site when you can. In the interim, if you need to communicate per email, I've listed that information as well.
God Bless our Angels............
Debi Collins
http://andrew-collins.last-memories.com